Couples / Relationship

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The Second Potential Reason My Partner and I Fight So Poorly and What to do about it (According to a Relational Life-Trained Therapist)

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “I need to control my partner” to make our relationship work? If so, you’re not alone, but this mindset is often a losing strategy that can damage intimacy and trust. According to a Relational Life-Trained Therapist, trying to manage or control your partner doesn’t just create distance—it can lead […]

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Why My Partner and I Fight So Poorly and What to do about it (According to a Relational Life-Trained Therapist)

Do you ever find yourself wondering, why my partner and I fight so often? You’re not alone. Many couples struggle to navigate conflict in ways that feel productive and supportive. Whether it’s small disagreements that escalate or recurring arguments that never seem to resolve, the frustration can take a toll on your relationship. As a

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Tips to Support Your Partner with Addiction: Expert Advice

​Communication is the foundation of any successful relationship, and when one partner is struggling with their mental health, it’s important to address it together. If you suspect that your partner could benefit from seeking professional help, it’s essential to approach the conversation with empathy and understanding.

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Does Online Therapy Work (and If So, How Well)?

When the COVID-19 pandemic began a handful of years ago, so much of the world had to adapt quickly.  One of those adaptations was the move from in-person to online platforms for a variety of careers.  Therapy was one such career.   My Opinion on Online/Teletherapy  Personally, as an individual and couples’ therapist, who works with

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