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Key Habits to Help You Achieve a Happier and Closer Relationship

Have you found that you and your partner have grown apart? You wish you both could just be happy and close to each other again, but you don’t know how. Here, we’ll show you one of the best ways to bring you and your loved one back together is through increased mutual fondness and respect.

 

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Why is Sex Unsatisfying in My Relationship?

Shame is one unfortunate feeling that often appears in couples with a low desire partner. The low desire partner can often suffer from feeling as though there is something terribly wrong with him/her. This partner might incorrectly believe that this lack of sexual interest must mean s/he does not like, love, and/or respect his/her partner anymore.

An image of a couple sitting on opposite ends of the bed facing away from each other representing the distance in their relationship during a time where they aren't having sex. My Stress Solutions offers therapy for couples in California experiencing a disconnect in their relationship.

My Partner and I Aren’t Having Sex. Do We Really Need to Fix This?

Also, part of your value and source of happiness may be missing without sex. Perhaps, as a man or woman, it used to bring you tremendous joy to sexually please your partner, and now that that is missing, you are, to some extent, less joyful, satisfied, and happy. For men, in particular, this can be even more potently painful, as their value is often linked to pleasing their partner sexually. So, with that out of the equation, it can further add to pain linked to a perceived lack of masculinity/manhood and worth.

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How to Help an Irrational Person with Tremendous Fear

In this country in particular, another message that often bombards us all from birth is the idea that our negative emotions are bad. Not only is this incredibly untrue, but when we believe this, it directly contributes to procrastination. If we aren’t supposed to feel distressed, worried, fearful, overwhelmed, guilty, shameful, irritated, and dread, just to name a few common ones related to procrastination, then it will be quite the challenge to begin working on a task where some or all these emotions burst up to the surface.

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