Most conversations with your partner have become tense. You wish you could just have the smooth, relaxing, and loving conversations you used to have with each other. In this blog, we’ll take a look at some easy to digest and implement tools to vastly improve how you and your loved one talk to one another today. Start being kinder, gentler, more open, and loving with one another, just like you used to be, and know that you can get back to again!
Relational Jiu Jitsu is all about sliding underneath the surface of a poorly delivered bid for connection to capture what’s most meaningful in the bid. Rather than fighting fire with fire, this is all about seeing the punches and maneuvering gracefully to the side of them.
We can either turn toward, turn way, or turn against. Our relationship future rests predominantly on which of these 3 doors we walk through and how often we choose to walk through them.
Ultimately, raising a child effectively often means putting ourselves aside. We have to do our best to consistently present as our best versions of ourselves as individuals and as partners so that our child has his/her best chance of developing in the healthiest ways. Every moment matters and your child is always watching and absorbing information, even when you might feel s/he is not.
